By ROB HOERBURGER
Published: July 8, 2011
Aretha Franklin sat alone with a Coke. It was the night of her 69th birthday, and all around, guests were filing into the Park Room at the Helmsley Park Lane Hotel on Central Park South, bobbing to live music from the vibraphonist Roy Ayers or the mambo prince Tito Puente Jr. Franklin has given herself big birthday parties before, but this one had a certain urgency. A few months earlier, in December, she announced she had undergone an unnamed surgical âprocedure,â and word spread that she had pancreatic cancer (which she denied); other reports speculated that sheâd had gastric-Âbypass surgery to get control of a weight problem that appeared to have pushed her over 250 pounds (which she denied). The organizers of the Grammy Awards quickly put together a tribute for her, and the sudden and shocking weight loss displayed in a taped thank-you played during the ceremony in February only kept advance-obituary writers scrambling for whatever superlatives were left to describe a career that has included 18 Grammys, upward of 75 million records sold, being the first woman inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and a Presidential Medal of Freedom.
But now there she sat at a front table, in a flowing cream-Âcolored silk Naeem Khan gown, with the kind of resurrection glow you see on stained-glass windows in churches. Open and accessible to all, Franklin seemed to be saying, Come, poke your fingers into the airspace where a third of me used to be. âI almost walked by her in the hall,â said a friend who has known her for more than 15 years, âthatâs how much I didnât recognize her.â
Slowly, well-wishers made their way to her. Tony Bennett, trailed by the record producer Phil Ramone, presented her with a drawing heâd done of her. Bette Midler, who is very short, and her husband, Martin von Haselberg, who seems very tall, did a walk-through in street clothes, stopping by Franklinâs table. Clive Davis, music-biz Ă©minence grise, appeared long enough to be pelted with business cards and photo-op requests. Smokey Robinson, a friend of Franklinâs since their youth in Detroit, actually sat down for a spell. Also in attendance were the odd current A-listers (Gayle King, Wendy Williams) or just the odd guest period (the actor Michael Imperioli, who sat at a side table with his date).
Finally, after an hour or so, Franklin rose and walked over to the food stations, where she half-filled her own plate with lobster on blue-corn tortilla, smoked-salmon mousseline and baked ham made from her own recipe. She had plenty of company while she ate, including the Rev. Al Sharpton, but there were a few more moments when she sat strangely by herself, as if the guests, even some of her best friends, felt the need to dance gingerly around her. When her birthday cake, which almost filled a small table, was rolled out, the crowd parted again, and she made her way to it across the room, just as the D.J., who was spinning in between the live performers, played âRespect.â Franklin shimmied her shoulders and sang along for a few bars with her 24-year-old self as she got ready to blow out the candles. Not long after that, she and a retinue of six or eight processed out. It had been a long night and a long few months, and she looked tired, but also content, and ready for another spring.
âMay I recommend something?â Aretha Franklin asked after we slid into a banquette in the side room of Jean Georges on Central Park West. âThe shrimp-and-avocado salad. Iâve had it four times this week.â It was a warm day in early May, and we were meeting to talk about her first album of new material in almost eight years, âA Woman Falling Out of Loveâ â released on her own label and available, at least initially, only at Wal-Mart. (It came on the heels of âTake a Look,â a box set of her presuperstardom years, 11 CDs of gestating genius.) That she agreed to an interview was a bit of a surprise. Franklin has long had two great phobias: she has not been on a plane since 1983, when a rocky twin-engine experience made her realize, she said, âwhy the pope kisses the ground.â And she has been notoriously evasive of the press since a Time magazine cover article in 1968 suggested, at the very moment she was becoming a national icon, that she was also a battered woman, claiming that her husband at the time âroughed her up.â We were, in fact, supposed to meet earlier in the week; I got as far as the lobby of her hotel before she canceled (she later blamed a miscommunication with her publicist).
But now she arrived on time, in a navy-and-white-flecked light wool blazer, white top and leather skirt, still plus-size but in the lower rungs, and moving confidently in Jimmy Choos (like the ones she tripped and broke her toe on a few weeks ago). She introduced me to her security team â Mr. So-and-So, this is Mr. So-and-So â and she would throw up that filter of formality throughout our lunch if a question cut a little too close. Iâd also been told beforehand that she would not discuss the nature of the medical procedure or anything reported in âThe Queen of Soul,â an unauthorized biography by Mark Bego that, like most unauthorized biographies, sometimes presents its subject in less-than-flattering lights.
She ordered tea âwith Splenda, lots of Splenda,â and we started talking about New York, the city where she spends most of her time outside her home city, Detroit â she will perform at Jones Beach on July 27 â and where she had her greatest recording glory. We were only steps away from the site of the old Atlantic Studios, where she recorded most of the torrent of hit singles in 1967-68 that included not just âRespectâ but also âChain of Fools,â âThinkâ and â(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman.â
âI first came here when I was a teenager in the â50s with my dad,â she said, the word âdadâ coming out with the same frisson of hard consonant and harmonic vowel that permeates her records. (Her father was the Rev. C. L. Franklin, one of the first celebrity charismatic preachers.) âYou remember certain things about the city that arenât here anymore. There was a great little steak place next to the Apollo where Iâd go between shows to have my lunch and dinner.â Food joints, record stores, âknockoutâ men she ran into, these were the most immediate memories she conjured. One of those knockouts was Sam Cooke, the R&B and pop legend and lothario, whom she went to visit once at the Warwick Hotel. âThere was another young lady, a name vocalist who had been visiting him prior to myself, and I saw her coming out of his room. To this day she insists it wasnât her, but of course it was. I had a very clear view, but she insisted it wasnât, because she was married. I was only visiting him as a friend. And we were sitting talking and laughing, and I went into the bathroom and happened to see a ring around the tub. I just could not believe it . . . to me he was above things like that. That was so common.â She giggled, but when the waitress appeared again to take our order, she shifted back into Queen of Soul mode, ignoring her.
Cooke was just one of many prominent, powerful men in whose presence Franklin has thrived, along with her father; the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. (who, like Cooke, was sometimes a guest in the Franklin home); the record executives John Hammond, Jerry Wexler and Clive Davis; and most recently the president of the United States. Franklin performed âMy Country âTis of Theeâ at Obamaâs inauguration, and for perhaps one of the few times in her life she was upstaged, not by another performer but by the impressionistic Luke Song hat she wore. (âThe hat now has its own Facebook page,â Franklin said, as if giving a backhanded compliment to another diva.) She didnât speak to Obama that day, but they met during his campaign at âan undisclosed locationâ with 10 other ânotable people.â âYou know what he said to me? âYou look good.â I was already beginning to lose weight, and it was an affirmation of all my efforts. And then he sang âChain of Fools,â and I thought, Heâs really hip. Real down, and real up. And heâs got a walk like nobody else.â
Franklin has been married twice, the second of her marriages, to the actor Glynn Turman, ending in divorce in 1984, the same year her father died. (She has four sons, ranging in age from early 40s to mid-50s.) Her most recent busted romance was the inspiration for âA Woman Falling Out of Love.â âHe was a younger man, though not so young that Iâd be considered a cougar,â she said. âHe was a man of very high principles and integrity.â I asked her what she meant by this â did he remember her birthday, always pick up the check, attend church with her? She wouldnât be specific. âJust generally, a man of principles and integrity.â A âcarelessâ comment, uttered by Franklin, ended it. âFalling out of love is like losing weight,â she said. âItâs a lot easier putting it on than taking it off.â
Sooner or later, almost everything we discussed came back to food, and it was clear that Franklin is as obsessed with it as she ever was, only now that obsession extends to how not to eat it. She said she has lost 85 pounds, through a combination of her mystery surgery and dieting. âI learned,â she said, âthat I wouldnât starve if I had one hot dog instead of two.â She took some advice from her former rival Natalie Cole about not eating after 6 p.m. âAt first I thought she was crazy, but it works, it really works.â For exercise, she has a treadmill in her home and walks the aisles at Wal-Mart. âI love Wal-Mart,â she said, âand not just because my record is there. You can get some things there that you cannot find at Saks or Bergdorfâs or other upscale stores.â
The talk about her weight loss brought us to her surgery, though in the end all she would say was that it was a required procedure, that it was not âminorâ and that when she knew she had to have it, she put out the call for prayer. The Rev. Jesse Jackson and Stevie Wonder, among others, flew to her side. âI was concerned,â she said, âbut I wasnât afraid. My faith in God is too great for that, and my family and close friends gave me great support, and here I am.â
And here again, one more time, was the waitress, who said that the kitchen would be closing soon. Franklin, as if trying to ward off all temptation of food, still did not look at her, but finally said, regally, âIâll have a glass of orange juice.â
The recently released box set,âTake a Look,â compiles Franklinâs recordings between 1960 and 1966, from ages 18 to 24. It includes jazz, supper-club standards, silky soul, blues, âAmerican Bandstandâ pop and just about every other genre that existed in the early â60s. If the sessions, recorded for Columbia, didnât quite capture lightning in a bottle, they set the stage for âRespectâ and the other sandblasting-soul tracks that followed. âPart of what makes her timeless is that her music is so personal,â says Michele Myers, a D.J. on the influential indie station KEXP in Seattle. Myers frequently mixes classic Franklin tracks in a set that might also include Adele, Spoon, LCD Soundsystem and Deerhunter. âShe was into musical empowerment. She would refuse to sing any song about a man treating her bad over and over.â Thatâs not exactly true, but even in a song like her breakthrough Atlantic hit, âI Never Loved a Man (the Way I Loved You),â with its opening line, âYouâre no good/Heartbreaker/Youâre a liar/And youâre a cheat,â Franklin sings with such prowess that itâs impossible to hear her as a victim.
Franklin will not claim a favorite era of her career. Not the Columbia or Atlantic years, or the period she spent with Davis at Arista, where the results were sometimes schlocky (cheesy electro-pop duets) but still often sublime (playful comeback hits like âJump to Itâ and âFreeway of Loveâ). âIâve never recorded anything I didnât like,â she said. âWell, maybe one time.â She wouldnât say what that one song or album was. She says she has sung âRespectâ thousands of times and hasnât tired of it, and she acknowledged that the song has become âa national anthem.â It has also become a party dance-floor clichĂ©, but its significance over the years cannot be overestimated: the song was a cultural document of the civil rights era, with loud reverberations for African-Americans, for women, for gays, for anyone, really, who felt neglect or subjugation. But when I asked her why the song had had such an impact, she just said, blithely, âI guess everybody just wanted a little respect.â
It was almost time for Franklin to leave for a fitting at Oscar de la Renta â new clothes for her new shape, and probably the kinds of things not available at Wal-Mart â but before she did, she said, suddenly animated, âWe havenât talked about the movie!â A film of her life story is in development, âwith a huge budget, $50, $60 million,â she said. Denzel Washington has been mentioned as a possibility to play her father, Franklin said proudly, and she had imagined Halle Berry playing her, though Berry ultimately demurred because she canât sing. âI never expected her to sing,â Franklin said. Jennifer Hudson and Fantasia have also been considered, and Franklin named them as modern singers she enjoyed. Where did she stand on Lady Gaga? âI liked her when she started, her choreography,â Franklin said, âbut as she went along she got a little too far out . . . for my taste. Iâm not knocking her. But itâs not a good idea to get up on a piano.â
About a week after our interview, on a Sunday afternoon, my cellphone rang. It was Franklin, who had thought of something else she wanted to discuss: the high-school dropout rate. There were some figures, she said she thought sheâd read, that went as high as 50 percent; the hip-hop community needed to step up and tell kids to stay in school; those who did stay in school needed to be âlauded and applauded.â The issue seemed random, but it has great personal resonance for Franklin: she had told me that her only true regret was allowing one of her sons to quit school. (She herself dropped out to give birth to her first child in her midteens.)
After she exhausted the topic, she just wanted to chat. She was on her custom bus â her usual, nonairborne mode of traveling cross-country â on the way to Chicago to tape one of the final âOprahâ shows, and wanted to talk about the weather, literally. âWhatâs the temperature in New York?â she asked. After a few minutes of this, she got ready to sign off, and I told her to âbreak a leg.â âYou take that back,â she snapped. âTake it back!â She explained that someone once said that to her and it actually happened.
Here is a woman who has fulfilled every professional expectation that has been had of her since she was a teenage prodigy in her fatherâs choir loft; a woman for whom the word âlegendâ can be applied without grade inflation. And yet she is also a woman who still gets lonely on a bus, who feels she has to keep secrets, who blushes when the president compliments her appearance, whoâs still out there looking for love â and confident that sheâll find it.
During our lunch, I asked her who the love of her life was, wondering if it was one of her famous former beaus, like Dennis Edwards, the Temptation who was also the final performer at her birthday party. Franklin wrote one of her biggest hits, âDay Dreaming,â about him, and it contained one of her most poetic lines: âWhen heâs lonesome and feelinâ love-starved, Iâll be there to feed it.â At the party, Edwards sang, at Franklinâs request, âThe Way We Were,â and she joined him for the line âMemories may be beautiful, and yet. . . .â It could have been a sticky moment, but their voices, though a little patchy, were still full of rumble and froth. âThe love of my life?â sheâd said to me, mockingly aghast. âIâm much too young to answer that question.â
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